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You’re Living the Dream when…..
Parenting a Neurodiverse Child: The Ultimate Chaos Challenge
Final Thought: Welcome to the Wild Ride
Parenting a neurodiverse child is not for the faint of heart. (So, congratulations, you are gifted—accept it.)
In fact, it’s like trying to tame a unicorn while riding a unicycle on a tightrope over a…
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The Drive that Never Wanes
The Role of a Special Educator: Tenacity, Passion, and Purpose
The role of a special educator is not just teaching; it’s a commitment to fostering growth and transformation, a journey of patience, resilience, and unwavering belief in every child’s potential. Special educators do not just instruct; they bridge the gap…
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Surviving Neurodiversity
Surviving Neurodiversity: A Hilarious Guide to the Chaos
Being a special educator is a noble calling—or at least, that’s what they tell you before you sign up.
In reality, it’s a whirlwind of chaos, creativity, caffeine addiction, and the occasional existential crisis.
If you’re considering this career, buckle…
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Rethinking Autism: A Child’s Journey from Isolation to Connection
Rethinking Autism: A Child’s Journey from Isolation to Connection
Some children are mislabeled before they’re truly understood. This is the story of Nikhil (6 years) a boy who, at first glance, checked every box for being on the autism spectrum. Yet, beneath the surface, his story was far more…
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How We See vs. What We See. Does it matter
How We See vs. What We See: The Key to Children’s Perspective-Taking
Understanding the Difference
In everyday life, we often assume that what we see is the absolute truth. However, there is a fundamental difference between how we see and what we see.
What we see refers to the literal,…
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Real Versus False Empathy: Which One Are You Reflecting?
Understanding Real Versus False Empathy: Which One Are You Reflecting
What Is Real Empathy?
Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. When it comes to children, real empathy goes beyond just saying the right things—it’s about truly connecting with their emotions and validating their…
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Some Calls Change Your Day.
Some Calls Make Your Day
Some calls you forget in minutes.
Others linger for a day or two.
And then there are calls that make you pause—
Calls that remind you why you do what you do.
Today, I got one of those.
A call from the parents of…
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An Imperfect Solution That Exists Outperforms a Perfect One That Doesn’t
An Imperfect Solution That Exists Outperforms a Perfect One That Doesn’t
The Myth of the Perfect Plan
So many parents are waiting.
Waiting for the perfect parenting approach, the perfect expert, the perfect moment when everything will just click.
But here’s the truth: That moment doesn’t exist.
Your child isn’t…
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Are We Raising Fighters or Quitters? The Eye of the Tiger
Are We Raising Fighters or Quitters? The Eye of the Tiger
Introduction: Are We Preparing Our Kids for the Real World?
Ever watched a tiger hunt? It moves with sharp focus, unshaken by distractions. It doesn’t question its ability. It waits, observes, and when the moment is right—it strikes with…
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When Love Turns Into Over-Accommodation
Are You a Pushover Parent?
Understanding the Impact of Giving In and How to Set Healthy Boundaries
How Saying “Yes” Too Often Can Harm Your Child’s Growth—and How to Set Boundaries with Love
Introduction: When Love Crosses the Line
We all want to give our children the world—making them…
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The Digital Imprint: What Screens Are Teaching Our Kids (Even When We’re Not)
The Digital Imprint: What Screens Are Teaching Our Kids (Even When We’re Not)
“We’re not just passing down habits—we’re passing down coping mechanisms.”
In today’s world, it’s not just our words or emotions that fill the room—it’s the constant hum of notifications, pings, and screens.
Children aren’t just watching…
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The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far From the Tree: Unseen Influences That Shape Our Kids
The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far From the Tree: Unseen Influences That Shape Our Kids
“It’s not what we say, or even what we do—it’s how we live that shapes our children.”
We all want the best for our kids. We strive to model kindness, responsibility, and resilience. But what…
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Building the Brain for Speech
Building the Brain for Speech: A Parent’s Guide to Developing Communication Pathways in Non-Verbal Children
Strengthening the neural foundations for speech and meaningful communication.
Introduction: The Brain’s Role in Speech Development
Speech isn’t just about making sounds—it’s about building the neural connections that allow the brain, mouth, and body…
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Recognizing the Red Flags: When Therapy Is Doing More Harm Than Good
Recognizing the Red Flags: When Therapy Is Doing More Harm Than Good
How to spot when your child’s therapy isn’t working—and what to do next.
1. Introduction: When Therapy Becomes a Struggle, Not a Solution
When parents first start therapy for their child, they’re filled with hope. Hope that this…
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The Pitfall of Cookie-Cutter Programs
Breaking Free from the Push-and-Pull of Therapy Centers:
Why Working with an Experienced Special Educator Matters More Than Endless Therapy
Understanding Why Therapy Alone Often Fails and What Actually Works
The Problem: The Therapy Trap
Many parents begin their journey with the best intentions—to help their child thrive. But…
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30-Day Challenge: Engaging Your ND Child & Building Learning Readiness
30-Day Challenge: Engaging Your ND Child & Building Learning Readiness
A Step-by-Step Approach to Foster Focus, Sitting Tolerance, and Instruction Following
Helping neurodiverse (ND) children develop learning readiness isn’t about jumping into academics—it’s about building sitting tolerance, emotional regulation, focus, and the ability to follow simple instructions.
This 30-day…
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A Step-by-Step Guide for Neurodiverse Children to Skate Confidently and Safely
Learning to Skate & Gear Safety
A Step-by-Step Guide for Neurodiverse Children to Skate Confidently and Safely
Skating is a wonderful way for neurodiverse (ND) children to develop balance, coordination, and confidence, but it also comes with unique challenges. Many ND children may initially resist wearing safety gear, struggle with…
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Teaching Your Child to Cycle: A Journey of Movement, Balance, and Confidence
Teaching Your Child to Cycle: A Journey of Movement, Balance, and Confidence
Cycling is more than just a skill—it’s independence, confidence, and joy in movement. Yet, for many children, especially those who develop skills differently, learning to cycle can feel overwhelming.
Parents often say:
“They sit on the bike but…
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The Clown Act: How to Stop Juggling and Start Balancing the High-Wire of Modern Parenting
The Clown Act: How to Stop Juggling and Start Balancing the High-Wire of Modern ParentingAre You Running a Parenting Circus?
Do you ever feel like a one-person circus act—juggling responsibilities, performing tricks to keep the peace, and balancing on a tightrope between meltdowns, expectations, and your own exhaustion?
Welcome…
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Warning: Read at Your Own Peril
Warning: Read at Your Own Risk
This blog is not for the faint-hearted, the easily offended, or those looking for an excuse to wallow in victim syndrome for the next century.
If you’re the type to clutch your pearls, gasp dramatically, or write a long, emotional post about how “parenting…
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A Stitch in Time Saves Nine: Why Your Parenting May Need a Reset Now
A Stitch in Time Saves Nine: Why Your Parenting May Need a Reset Now
Introduction
“The biggest parenting struggles aren’t always loud and obvious—they are the quiet ones that slowly spiral out of control.”
Are you constantly hovering around your child, making sure they get things done?
Do you feel…
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The Calm Parent: Choosing a Response Over a Reaction
The Calm Parent: Choosing a Response Over a Reaction.
“How you respond in moments of frustration shapes your child’s ability to handle their own emotions.”
Parenting is one of the most demanding roles in life, and feeling frustrated is completely normal. However, frustration is often a result of deeper struggles—…
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The Silent Emotional Toll of Constant Criticism: How Words Shape Your Child’s Self-Worth
The Silent Emotional Toll of Constant Criticism: How Words Shape Your Child’s Self-Worth
Introduction
As parents, we often correct our children with the best intentions—guiding them toward better choices, discipline, and responsibility. But what if constant criticism does more harm than good? Many parents unknowingly erode their child’s confidence through…
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Zen Parenting: Lessons from Ikigai for Raising Emotionally Balanced Children
Zen Parenting: Lessons from Ikigai for Raising Emotionally Balanced Children
Introduction
Parenting today can feel overwhelming, with endless responsibilities, emotional challenges, and external pressures. But what if we could shift our approach to parenting by adopting a mindset rooted in peace, balance, and purpose?
The Japanese philosophy of Ikigai, which…
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Are You Raising a People-Pleaser? How to Build Confidence Instead of Compliance
Are You Raising a People-Pleaser? How to Build Confidence Instead of Compliance
Introduction
In today’s fast-changing world, raising a child who is confident, self-assured, and capable of independent thinking is more important than ever. Yet, many children grow up afraid to say no, constantly seeking approval, and struggling to voice…
