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Find the Pattern: How to Recognize and Overcome Toxic Cycles in Parenting
Find the Pattern: How to Recognize and Overcome Toxic Cycles in Parenting
Introduction
Parenting is one of the most profound roles we take on in life, yet it often comes with deeply ingrained patterns—some helpful, others harmful. Many of us unknowingly carry forward behaviors, beliefs, and emotional responses from our…
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The Silent Harm: How Unintentional Parenting Habits Crush a Child’s Spirit
The Silent Harm: How Unintentional Parenting Habits Crush a Child’s Spirit
Introduction
As parents, we want the best for our children, and discipline is an essential part of their development. However, in our zeal to teach and correct, we may unintentionally cross the line into harmful territory. Shame, comparison, and…
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The Slap That Hurts: Understanding the Lasting Impact on Your Child
Do You Casually Resort to Slapping Your Child? Understanding the Real Impact
Introduction
Many parents have, at some point, found themselves resorting to physically disciplining their child—whether as a reaction to frustration, a belief in “tough love,” or because they themselves were raised that way. Some justify it by saying,…
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How Suffering Becomes a Cycle
The Choices We Make: How Suffering Becomes a Cycle
I sat across from them—a mother and her teenage daughter—listening, absorbing, feeling the weight of their story.
A mother, still trapped in the shadows of her past heartbreaks.
A daughter, carrying wounds that weren’t hers to bear.
It wasn’t just another…
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Auditory Sensitivity vs. Auditory Processing Disorder (APD): Understanding the Difference
Auditory Sensitivity vs. Auditory Processing Disorder (APD): Understanding the Difference
Sound plays a huge role in how we experience the world. But for many children—especially differently abled children —how they perceive, process, and react to sound can vary drastically.
Two common yet often confused auditory challenges are:Auditory Sensitivity (also…
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Am I Guilty?
Am I Guilty
Every parent, at some point, has whispered these words to themselves.
“I should have been more patient.”
“I should have spent more time with my child today.”
“I should have handled that meltdown better.”
“I should be doing more.”
Guilt creeps in—quietly, but persistently. It convinces us…
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The Hidden Churn of Character
Being a Good Human: Who You Are When No One’s Watching
We often measure goodness by how we treat others—our kindness, our generosity, our ability to show up for people. But true character isn’t built in public moments.
It’s forged in the small, private choices we make every day.
The…
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Be Aware: You Are the Role Model in Your Child’s Life
Be Aware: You Are the Role Model in Your Child’s Life
In a world flooded with motivational speeches, quick-fix parenting tips, and overhyped self-improvement hacks, we often forget the most fundamental truth about raising a child:
Your child isn’t just listening to you—they are watching you.They aren’t just…
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Your Child Mirrors Your Patterns, Not Your Words
Your Child Mirrors Your Patterns, Not Your Words
As parents, we spend so much time teaching, guiding, and correcting—telling our children to be respectful, responsible, and kind.
We say:
“Be patient.” “Clean up after yourself.” “Speak politely.” “Be kind to others.”
But here’s the hard truth—your child is not absorbing…
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Consistency Compounds. Occasional Brilliance Fades
Mindset: The Power to Transform Every Aspect of Your Life
We often think success and balance come from doing more, pushing harder, or finding extra hours in the day. But here’s the truth—it’s not about time. It’s about mindset.
Everything you want—consistency, discipline, peace of mind, fulfillment—begins with how…
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Time Isn’t the Constraint. Our Choices Are
The Power of Intentional Routines: Give Your Best Time to What Truly Matters
As parents, our lives are a whirlwind of responsibilities—balancing work, managing home, tending to children, and trying (often failing) to find a moment for ourselves. It’s easy to feel like we never have enough time. But the…
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You Are the Bridge Between Your Child and the World – Until They Can Cross It on Their Own
You Are the Bridge Between Your Child and the World – Until They Can Cross It on Their Own
For neurodiverse children, self-advocacy is not just a skill—it’s a lifeline. It’s what helps them navigate school, friendships, and life with confidence, rather than frustration or isolation.
But self-advocacy…
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A Breakthrough with an ASD Student I Would Like to Share
A Breakthrough with an ASD Student I Would Like to Share
Rohit, a 15-year-old student on the autism spectrum, is a shining example of hidden potential waiting to be unlocked. With a sharp pictorial memory and an impressive ability to recall details, his strengths were apparent from the beginning. Yet,…
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From Limiting Beliefs to Limitless Potential
From Limiting Beliefs to Limitless Potential: A Parent’s Guide to Transformation
Parenting is an extraordinary journey—one filled with moments of joy, pride, and love, but also moments of fear, doubt, and uncertainty. For parents of neurodiverse children, these emotions can feel amplified. Often, the biggest challenges don’t come from the…
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You Are Broken, But I Love You
The Voices of Trailblazers: Helping Neurodiverse Children Overcome Limits
Every child has a voice, a unique way of expressing themselves and navigating the world. For neurodiverse children, or as I lovingly call them, “Trailblazers,” their voices often come with nuances that require patience, understanding, and a commitment to listening. These…
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When We Stop Being Afraid of What Might Happen
I first stumbled upon Voices in the Family by Daniel Gottlieb on August 22, 2009. From that moment, the book became a profound source of inspiration and understanding for me. Since then, I have shared it with many parents during times when they needed it most, and I have revisited…
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How Parents Shape Their Children’s Learning
How Parents Shape Their Children’s Learning: A Legacy of Respect and Connection
“Children are great imitators. So give them something great to imitate.”
As parents, we often focus on teaching our children valuable lessons, skills, and values. But the truth is, children learn far more from what we do than…
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The Power of Moments: Reflecting on Life’s Fleeting Memories
The Power of Moments: Reflecting on Life’s Fleeting Memories
“The human brain is a wonderful organ. It starts working the moment you get up in the morning and does not stop until you get into the office.” This humorous quote by Robert Frost highlights the complexities of our brain and…
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How to Help Young Children Become Readers: Engaging Verbal and Non-Verbal Learners
How to Help Young Children Become Readers: Engaging Verbal and Non-Verbal Learners
“Have you ever sat down with a book, ready to share the magic of stories with your child, only to find them restless, uninterested, or unwilling to listen?”
It’s a scene many parents know too well. But here’s…
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Feel the Fear and Rise Above It: Lessons From Susan Jeffers’ Inspiring Book
Feel the Fear and Live It Anyways: Lessons From Susan Jeffers’ Inspiring Book
Fear—it’s one of the most universal human emotions, yet one of the most misunderstood. We often try to avoid it, fight it, or pretend it doesn’t exist. But what if fear is not the enemy? What if…
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The Rising Toxicity Around Us: Finding Yourself in a Distracted World
The Rising Toxicity Around Us: Finding Yourself in a Distracted World
Toxicity seems to be growing everywhere—whether it’s in online spaces or real-life interactions. Social media has amplified voices but also created an environment where people seem less mindful, less connected to themselves, and increasingly detached from introspection. It’s heartbreaking…
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Bringing Peace and Joy Into Your Home: Building a Life of Fulfillment With Your Child
Bringing Peace and Joy Into Your Home: Building a Life of Fulfillment With Your ChildAfter exploring the courage of ownership and the journey to creating a success story for your neurodiverse child—a blog I wrote earlier and highly recommend you read (I’ll link it below)—it’s time to focus on…
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Achieving A Success Story for a Neurodiverse Child and Their Family: What We Need to Do Today
Success looks different for every child, but for a neurodiverse child and their family, it often involves more than just milestones or achievements. A true success story is one where the child thrives in their individuality, and the family feels supported, understood, and empowered to navigate life’s journey together
But…
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The Courage of Ownership: A Dream of Inclusive Education
As I spend endless nights planning and working on my second book, a book on inclusivity for teachers to be handed over to HarperCollins in a couple of months, I find myself reflecting on the words of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.:
“I have a dream that my four little…
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Harnessing the Moana Mindset: Discovering Your Purpose
Harnessing the Moana Mindset: Discovering Your Purpose
“The ocean chose me for a reason. I must find out why.”
This powerful quote from Disney’s Moana 2, after watching it, resonates deeply resonates deeply, encapsulating the essence of self-discovery, determination, and courage. Moana’s journey is not just about crossing oceans but…
